Help! They coming to Rape me!

Let me start off by apologizing for the lack of update these few weeks, blah blah blah shit happened.
I'll try to make up for it, just read until the end of the post to see how.

Onto this week's topic: rape! Yup, you read that read that right. It's something I've been meaning to talk about since the updates I did a while back regarding roleplay. As you probably guessed, I'm not talking about actual rape but roleplay-rape. Studies have shown it's one of the more popular fetishes in women. Before you send me a big great email to tell me I'm a mysoginist pig (though if you want to, my email is pervadvice@gmail.com), look up a bit of info on the topic, you'll see I'm not just saying women want to get raped.

I can't claim to understand the fetish completely but from what I've been told, it's the danger factor as well as the complete loss of control. So how would you go about doing that? Well, doing that without the whole free trip to jail. That's where rape fantasy roleplay comes in.
I'm just going to describe a simple, quick way to work it out with your partner, I would ask you not to take this is law. I don't claim this works on everyone, nor do I claim this is the only way to do it. It's only one idea. As I write from my own point of view, this will be addressed to the males but the content applies to everybody and could very well apply to a male being "raped".

Your very first step, before you do ANYTHING ELSE, will be to talk to your partner about it. I said it was one of the more popular fantasies, but that doesn't mean everyone shares it. You're going to have to establish a few very important items.

-How far are you allowed to take it? Some might prefer a lighter version, which includes you simply coming in at a random time and grabbing her in her own home. Maybe she wants you to go all out; show up at her office dressed in a hoodie and take advantage of her without any of her coworkers realizing it (quick note: this doesn't work very well in a cubicle environment). She should let you know just how far into the fantasy is her breaking point. I understand the whole point of it all is for her to lose control but you just don't want to have to deal with police intervention or have her be "scared" of you because she's witnessed a side of you she didn't know existed. This also extends to how rough you should go. Is she into being choked? (I am referring just to pressure around the throat, I'm not talking about erotic asphyxiation which I do not condone in any way shape or form) Is she into getting slapped? Pushed harshly against a wall? Figure that out first.

-Time Frame. Rape is never planned. Well it is but not for the rapee. I've watched a whole lot of CSI and I've never seen a victim's day planner which read
"12:00 lunch with execs
13:00 pick up dry cleaner
14:00 get raped
14:10 Conference call with HR"
Now again, she's not supposed to expect it so when you set up a time frame, try to be very loose with it. Try to set up something like a 5 day period in which, at any time, things could go down. Now you'll want of course to ber very familiar with her schedule during that period to properly plan but the idea is for her to not be waiting for it. If you give her a certain day, she'll be expecting it all day and it won't be as much of a surprise. If you wait a few days though, her guard drops and when she doesn't expect it, she gets snagged from behind, put up against a wall and fucked against her will.
In my case my best bet would be at her place since I have a key, wait for her to come home from work and pounce sometime after dinner.

-Safe word. The concept is simple enough so I don't have to explain it but you never know, maybe she had a hell of a day at work. Maybe she's feeling sick or just "blah". I understand it's supposed to rid her of control and force her against her will, but you might want to hold off on one scenario to avoid a dry spell because she's pissed off.

I think that encompasses everything for now. I think I gave out enough info as well as enough small disclaimers to cover my back and the back of anyone I've ever rap-...made love to!


PORN GIVEAWAY
Now that I have your attention, I'm giving away porn!
I've purchased quite a lot from AdamEve these recent months and using these awesome promo codes gives you some Porn dvd's with your order. So now I have 9 dvd's (3 sets of 3) to give out. I had organized the contest a while back but I'm dropping it as most people preferred not to have their story put out in public.
So just send me your name to pervadvice@gmail.com and tell me why you want it.
Simple enough no?