Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Not done just yet

Last week I quickly went over a quick little bathtime fun for you and your partner and it's only two days later, on my way to the airport that it hit me: I forgot to mention waterproof toys. Of course my previous update was more romantic than naughty but it doesn't mean romantic can't lead into naughty. So for this week I'll just go over a few toys to keep in mind for bathroom fun (be it bath or shower).

Before I head into toys though I want to mention a few things to be alert of. Movies often romanticize the idea of hot tub/bathtub sex but it's not always that magical. Being submerged does tend to wash away some of the woman's natural lubrification which increases friction and can lead to discomfort. I do recommend silicone-based lubricant for this occasion since it won't wash off in the water. Being underwater doesn't mean a condom isn't necessary either. "Don't be a fool, wrap your tool". The silicone lubricant won't wear away at the latex either so less chances of it breaking.
Water does also sometimes numb the male member a little which will increase his time needed to orgasm, keep that in mind and if it starts drawing over too long a period, offer to finish up outside of the bath. Most men who have masterbated in the shower/bath will tell you it takes longer than normally.

With all this in mind, on to toys! After all it's 50% of what I mention on here.
Most regular toys will have waterproof versions of them for you to enjoy in the bath, shower, or possibly (private) pool. So you can easily find waterproof Jackrabbits or waterproof g-spot vibrators and of course you'll have fun with them. But for now let's check other options.
You might have used one out of the water before but have you tried a glass toy in combination with water? The temperature of the water affects the toy itself, of course cold water makes it cold (ideal for teasing), and warm water warms it up (to avoid those chills as you first slide it in). With no electronic insides there is no worries to break it and maybe it's just me, but the setting just seems to fit for the glass toy. Maybe it's all the mirrors around, maybe it's the water, but it just seems to fit. Warm up the water (or cool it down in the sink) and let yourself loose with your wand.

If you ask me, wireless eggs were created for two things: roadgasms, and underwater. Now this has the benefit of being a lot more subtle then a dildo which means you could easily have one in your bikini at the pool with no one the wiser. You could be swimming gently while your partner holds the remote and teases you from the side of the pool (I do have to mention side of the pool since most wireless toys don't have wireless remotes). Imagine having to hold back from moaning through an orgasm because you're in public. Maybe your partner is a tease and they just like to get you all worked up before you exit the pool, find a quiet spot and finish up. Either way, the egg works nicely, and it works just as nicely in the tub. You or your partner can still control it as you remain submerged in the water, feel it bring you closer and closer to climax before you step out of the tub and ask him to take you right there over the sink counter.

This next one I thought was more of a gag gift until I saw it in action; presenting the rubber duckie. It's fully waterproof of course and designed to look like an innocent bath toy until you twist the end and it begins the vibrate. It's tail is designed to hit your clitoris just right and the rest of it vibrates to provide stimulation wherever else you might need it. Have a splashing orgasm in the bath without anyone else ever suspecting your innocent looking rubber duck is the tool of your naughty and clean (well I would say clean but after all, you're in the bathtub) activities.

This next one can be used in the bathtub but I don't see it as it's primary purpose. The Dildo with suction cup is designed to stick in place so you can ride it hands free. I won't claim to understand why but the women I know who use this seem to agree on the it's preferred location: the edge of the bathtub. One leg in, one leg out, the toy on the edge as they ride it. It could be simply that the suction cup sticks better to the bath then a hardwood floor, I just don't know. But it's definately worth a try. Another common use is against the wall in the shower to simulate being taken from behind. Now for this position I would recommend attaching the suction cup before running the water to make sure it's properly stuck on the wall. Once that's done, turn on the hot water, and imagine your favourite hunk giving it to you in the shower.

This next accessory is one I have not tried yet but intend to in the near future. These Suction Shower Handlebars seem perfect for a hot shower session, whether your plan is to go down on your partner, take her in a standing missionary position, or from behind, the handles should give her that extra grip so you don't have to reposition every few seconds. Hopefully they are strong enough to support the pressure but I will let you know in a future update, this is definately something I intend to try out.

Well I think that sums up the Bath/shower/pool scene nicely, of course I leave this open to email comments and questions in case I want to revisit the topic later with brand new ideas or corrections.
In the meantime, go grab a toy, stop reading and head for the bathroom, I hear the water calling you out.